Part I: The Future of Work . . . and How We Can Own It -- How the World of Work Is Changing--and Why That's Good News for Women -- Six Things We Have Going for Us -- Part II: Put Your Oxygen Mask On First Before Assisting Others -- Make Sure Success Is Well Defined -- The Obligatory Ask-for-the-Raise and How-to-Negotiate Chapter (with a Twist) -- Out with the Queen Bee. In with New Approaches to Mentoring and Sponsorship -- . . . Oh, and Some Thoughts on How to Do the Networking Thing Better, Too -- Career Curveballs--Why We Really Need to Get Over Our Fear of the F-Word -- How to Avoid the Career Risk You Don't Even Know You're Taking -- The Best Career Advice No One Is Talking About -- Part III: The Courageous Conversations -- Let's Hold a Funeral for the Diversity Council . . . and Other Well-Meaning Initiatives That No Longer Work -- The Company Culture Conversation -- The Flexibility Without Shame Conversation -- The, "Hey, Larry" (or Sometimes "Hey, Nancy") Conversation -- Part IV: Pay It Forward -- Literally Own It: Start Your Own Thing -- Invest in Change . . . Money Is Power. Let's Use Ours to Do Good -- You Know the Kids Are Watching, Right? -- Conclusion: Finally, You Gotta Remember to Laugh.